Don’t you wish you could relive all the wonderful times in your life? I know I do! I had the most fabulous weekend, and I so wish it wasn’t almost over. My amazing boyfriend Darren visited me here at Oberlin.
This is actually an old picture from when he drove all the way to South Carolina to visit me last January. That is another weekend I wish I could re-live over and over. I think quite a lot of the joy in my life comes from my amazing man. (This isn’t getting too lovey-dovey for ya’ll I hope!)
Anyways, this weekend was great! Darren got here Friday evening, and we cooked a nice dinner. Of course, before dinner, we had dessert!
Yes, we had dessert before dinner. Why? Because this is my apartment, and I make the rules. Actually I was starving while dinner was cooking, and I terribly needed something to assuage the empty pit in my stomach. I made these “Grown-Up” Mocha Mudslide Milkshakes. These milkshakes consisted of mocha mudslide flavored ice cream (any chocolate or coffee flavored ice cream would work), coconut milk, whipped cream, and…..Bailey’s. The last ingredient is obviously optional. However, my belief is that unless you have an allergy, an intolerance, or a chemical dependency (such as alcoholism), every food or beverage is fine in moderation. Neither Darren nor I binge drink, but we do like to indulge in a glass or wine or delicious cocktail (such as this milkshake!) every once in a while. To make these milkshakes we just used a blender to mix the ice cream, milk, and Bailey’s, and topped them with whipped cream. Yum! These made the perfect appetizer for dinner.
I served this black bean casserole as a salad for dinner. The next day for lunch, we ate the left overs on tortillas. I think it was even better the next day!
Southwest Black Bean Casserole
adapted from pinchofyum
- 1/2 chopped onion
- 1 red pepper, chopped
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/2 tsp ground cumin
- 1/4 tsp ground red pepper
- 5 garlic cloves, minced
- 2/3 cup low-sodium chicken broth
- 1 (15 oz) cans black beans, rinsed and drained
- 1/4 cup tomato sauce
- 1/2 cup (2 oz) shredded Monterey Jack cheese (I actually used mozzarella because it’s all I had on hand)
- Preheat oven to 425F.
- Heat a large nonstick pan over medium-high heat. Add onions to the pan and saute until browned.
- Add salt, cumin, red pepper, and garlic. Saute for 1 minute, stirring constantly (I added a tablespoon or two of water to keep things from sticking in the pan.)
- Stir in broth and black beans. Bring mixture to a boil and cook for 5 minutes. Mash beans to desired consistency.
- Spoon mixture into an 8-inch square baking dish coated with cooking spray. Top tomato sauce and cheese. Bake at 425F for 30 minutes. Remove from oven and let cool for atleast 10 minutes (otherwise it will be too runny).
- Serve with sour cream, tortilla chips, over rice, on tacos, on a salad, or just eat it plain!
Such a yummy dinner. Darren and I went to an American Folk-Jazz concert Friday night. I love all the free concerts at Oberlin. Then we headed to bed early because I took a practice MCAT Saturday morning. The test went surprisingly well. I’m really pleased with how I did, especially considering it was my first practice test.




Looks delicious! I had the leftovers of ours on a salad, too!
I love black beans!!! This looks delicious! And one of those milkshakes sounds awesome!
Haha you had me worried when I saw the blog title though!! I’m glad it’s just your man leaving and not things ending! haha
Dessert before dinner – that sounds awesome! But you know what? I could probably have dessert twice – FOR dinner!
Completely agreed!
Remember when the manager of bob Evans walked in in front of us and did.t hold the door??…still a little bitter aboutthat
Yes…me too.